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In the Delivery Room with a Surrogacy Delivery

a blog by Pamela MacPhee, June 11, 2012

There are so many expectations and anxieties in any delivery room, but the anticipation of a surrogacy delivery can be especially anxious. Because so much is emotionally invested in a surrogacy journey, the desire for everything to go perfectly can be a bit overwhelming. And then, of course, is the tiny awkward detail of juggling two couples in the delivery room, in addition to the doctors and nurses that are there (four in our case).

20 Months of Sundays

a blog by Jamie Pursley, June 5, 2012

When someone mutters the phrase “a month of Sundays,” they just have no idea. When it comes to waiting to get pregnant, we women know the process is a grueling waiting game. But what happens when you’re waiting for someone else to get pregnant for you?

I thought last September, when I found out that I was pregnant, that nine months was forever to wait. Wow, I had no clue! After we lost our pregnancy four months later, I promised myself I would dedicate the following five months to healing and grieving rather than jumping right back on the baby bandwagon. I am somewhat of an impatient person when it comes to this baby game, so of course that didn’t quite work out. Here we are, nine months after my first pregnancy, but another 11 months from having a baby. So in mother-to-be time, that’s forever. This feels like the never ending gestation.

On Letting Go

a blog by Traci Shahan, RN, WHNP-BC, Doctor of Nursing, Albrecht Women’s Care Denver IVF, June 3, 2012

Since I can remember I have loved dogs — all shapes, sizes, genders — any canine with a cold wet nose, warm heart and pleading eyes speaks to my spirit in a way that few humans can. In my childhood home we always had a dog or two lying about, usually on my bed at night, tucked into my belly, my arms looped around its neck. Despite my face being bitten by a Husky that took umbrage at my 3-year-old self poking my finger into its ear canal, I have been smitten with all things dog-esque. As soon as I could afford a dog after college, I got a Samoyed who loved to run away, then watch me race after her. She, smiling, always loping ahead a few hundred feet; me, panting and swearing my way toward her. And so it has continued the last 23 years. A bone-shaped sign hangs in my office that reads, “The dog hair is free,” as most days I wander around with a patina of dog hair stuck on my clothes.

Weird Science

a blog by Suzanne Rico, May 28, 2012

The night before my second son was born, I drank two glasses of red wine and ate half a pizza. I woke from a lovely nap when labor started about 4 a.m., and then welcomed my baby into the world two hours later, tears sprinkling his soft, warm head. And when I finally stopped crying, I walked to the hospital bed where my surrogate was recovering, kissed her forehead, and whispered the most heartfelt “thank you” of my life.

Profound Words from Movie Star Elizabeth Banks

a blog by Claire, May 17, 2012

Elizabeth Banks, the 37-year-old star of "The Hunger Games" and "What to Expect when You're Expecting" has been talking to the media recently about her infertility and having her son via gestational carrier. The actress, who also has a recurring role in 30 Rock, has a son, Felix, who was born in March 2011.

In recounting friends' advice while she was battling infertility, Banks said something very profound:

Feeling Positive about What Lies Ahead

surrogacy journey

a blog by Jamie Pursley, May 1, 2012

Wrapping up our first National Infertility Awareness Week … baby steps on this path of ours.

This past week was the first week I have felt normal in about a month. I have so much to look forward to in the coming months, and it just occurred to me this week that I don’t always have to have my guard up in fear of being let down again.

The Truth about Surrogacy

a blog by Pamela MacPhee, May 30, 2013

I suppose at this point I should expect it. But it doesn’t make me want to stop fighting it.

Some so-called professionals and women’s rights proponents continue over and over again, in the name of preventing state surrogacy legislation to prevail, to claim that surrogacy is the exploitation of poor women. Let’s be transparent here. Surrogacy legislation is designed actually to protect surrogates and Intended Parents to prevent exploitation and disappointment for both parties. I am a real proponent of women’s rights and I believe wholeheartedly in surrogacy.

What the Child Parent Security Act Means for Surrogacy in New York

May 29. 2013

A gestational carrier bears a pregnancy that is not biologically related to her. One or more embryos, created from the intended mother’s eggs or donor eggs and sperm from the intended father or a sperm donor, is transferred into the uterus of the gestational carrier similar to a traditional embryo transfer in IVF. The gestational carrier will relinquish all rights to the child at birth as is detailed in a gestational carrier agreement. However, gestational carrier agreements are not legal in all states making custody and parental rights a bit murky.

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Video: How Do You Pick the Ideal Surrogate?

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Dr. Said Daneshmand, of The Fertility Center of Las Vegas, discusses ideal qualities to look for in a surrogate including good physical and mental health, as well as strong personality, sense of responsibility, and compliance with protocol guidelines.

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The Bonding Room

a blog by Suzanne Rico, May 4, 2013

How does this sound? A room--quiet, comfortable and private-- earmarked for intended parents who need to bond with their just born, surrogate carried baby! This over-the-rainbow room didn't exist when I had my baby via surrogate five years ago, but it does now--the first of it's kind--at Saddleback Memorial Medical Center in Orange County, California.

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