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Gender Selection Options

Choosing the sex of your baby. There is a natural desire among parents to want a child of a particular sex. Many times a couple wants to "balance their family." For example, they want one boy and one girl. In other instances there may be a medical reason to choose the sex of your child; for example, your family does not want to pass on a sex-linked inheritable disease such as hemophilia, which is an X-linked bleeding disorder that is passed from mother to son. In that situation, the parents may want to avoid the risk by having a girl instead.

Currently, the only legal method for gender selection in the United States that is close to 100 percent accurate is preimplantation genetic screening (PGS) in conjunction with in vitro fertilization (IVF).

Natural Gender Selection Techniques

You may have heard of natural gender selection techniques that a couple can use to help them have a child of the sex they want. These methods include:

  • Timing Methods. The Shettles Method is based on calculating the time of the woman's ovulation and them trying to conceive either before or during ovulation. It is based on Y-sperm (male producers) sperm swim faster but don’t live as long as the bigger, hardier X-sperm (female producers) sperm, and that the vaginal environment is acidic most of the time but becomes slightly more alkaline close to ovulation, which favors Y-sperm. Thus, to conceive a boy, a couple should have sex on the day of ovulation or one day before, and to conceive a girl, they should have sex two or three days before ovulation. Studies have failed to confirm that sex at ovulation would result in more boy babies, and the claim that Y-sperm swim faster has also been refuted. Another method, called the Shelan Method, advocates the opposite of the Shettles Method — it suggests intercourse four to six days prior to ovulation to increase likelihood of fertilization by male sperm; two to three days before ovulation for a girl.
  • Other Methods. There are many "old wives tales" and at-home practices that couples may use to try for a specific sex naturally; for example, douching to change pH levels in the vagina, eating a specific diet to change pH levels in the vagina, drinking cough syrup before sex to thin the cervical mucus (making conditions more favorable for Y-sperm) or changing the depth of penetration or position during sex. None of these methods have ever been proven to be effective other than giving you a 50 percent chance of either sex, which is the same chance you would have anyway. But there are many anecdotes that say they work.

The Ericsson Method.

The Ericsson Method is a patented method based on the fact that the X chromosome is larger than the Y chromosome and should weigh more.

Semen is placed in a test tube on top of increasingly thicker layers of the protein albumin. Then it is rapidly spun in a centrifugal machine, which causes particles in a liquid to separate into layers, based on their density. The heavier, denser X-sperm (female producers) are thought to separate from the lighter Y-sperm (male producers), and then an all X or all Y sperm sample can be created.

The woman is then inseminated with the chosen X-sperm or Y-sperm sample. The doctor who created this method in the early 1970s has claimed a 78 percent to 85 percent success rate for boys and a 73 percent to 75 percent success rate for girls. However, other studies have shown that this method does not alternate the 50:50 chances of having a boy or girl.

Preimplantation Genetic Screening for Gender Selection

PGS in conjunction with IVF is 99.9 percent effective selecting the sex your child. You may also hear this technique referred to as preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD).

PGS involves testing one cell or cells from an embryo created via in vitro fertilization (IVF).
With PGS, one cell from the embryo is removed to analyze its chromosomal makeup, which indicates whether the embryo is female or male. Only embryos of the desired sex are transferred to the uterus during the IVF cycle.

Fertility clinics across the United States offer PGS. While it is most often offered for screening for genetic diseases, its use for gender selection is becoming more mainstream.

Microsort

Microsort is a technique that sorts male and female sperm. Sorted sperm are then placed in the uterus during an intrauterine insemination (IUI).

With Microsort, sperm absorb a dye which attaches to the DNA or genetic material inside the sperm. The X (female) chromosome is larger than the Y chromosome, thus absorbing more dye and displaying greater fluorescence when exposed to laser light. The difference in brightness is picked up by the flow cytometer (machine used in the process) and the sperm are sorted. Success rates using Microsort technology are close to 90 percent in conceiving a female, and close to 75 percent in conceiving a male.

You may have heard of Microsort because it was being offered at two clinics as part of a national study. However, Microsort did not get approved by the Food and Drug Administration, and as of March 2012, Microsort is no longer available in the United States.

Are you considering Gender Selection? Visit www.genderselectionauthority.com for more information.

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Is tis process covered by insurance? I know certain states have mandated coverage for infertility but does this apply to gender biased autism

Hi! I am not an insurance expert but I'm going to say likely there are very few insurance companies that would consider covering this. There might be an exception if a couple has a genetic issue that is more likely to be a problem in, for example, a boy child but I have not heard of this. It's a good idea to talk to your insurance company directly and talk to your RE about financial options. :) Claire --------- Need help or have a question? Contact me! claire@fertilityauthority.com

It seems as if my husband can , only have boy's. And has lost two girl's. What can be the problem?

Marlene, if you have had two miscarriages I encourage you to seek your doctor's advice. He or she might want to do some tests to see if they can track down the problem. Good luck to you! Claire --------- Need help or have a question? Contact me! claire@fertilityauthority.com

what is the cost in the baby gender procedure?

Our doctors recommend to use PGD for gender selection. The reasons for that is other procedures are either less accurate or have smaller chances of sperm surviving the test. PGD test for gender selection may cost you anywhere between $3,500 and $5,700. The cost will depend on your location and the clinic you choose.

pls direct me to a center inct. how much does it cost for gender selection?. how do i get the sperm to the center?

i have two girls as well as my long time partner, we both and have been married and have decided that while marriage is not something we need to devote ourselves to one another, that we would still love to try for that boy in the future....is this possible without being married to have gender selction done.

Yes, it is possible to do IVF with PGD for gender selection purposes, if you are not officially married. Keep in mind that you will have to have an IVF cycle for that. Here a link to MedVacation webpage that talks about PGD for gender selection and its accuracy http://www.themedvacation.com/pgd-accuracy Don't hestitate to contact me, if you have futher questions.

Nice! It is courageous to discuss this subject. Gender Selection is not good thing. It will become choice for couple and sometime they will take wrong decision. It will harmful for society.

Nice! It is courageous to discuss this subject. Gender Selection is not good thing. It will become choice for couple and sometime they will take wrong decision. It will harmful for society.

That's very interesting, thanks! I will discuss it with my wife.

Very informative blog. i liked to read this type of blog it is very useful to read this blog.thank you very much for sharing this information.

i m 38 yrs old, i have 2 daughters. They are 17 and 18 yrs old, i would like to have baby boy thru ivf gender selection procedure. is it possible

Gender Selection is not good thing. It will become choice for couple and sometime they will take wrong decision.Nice! It is courageous to discuss this subject.

How to have a girl? I the only woman in my dad's father in 30+ years. How can my husband and I have a girl , we already have three boys???

Hello, I don't think that gender selection is an good Idea, I think people should use technology for knowing about upcoming baby's health instead of gender. Thanks

Hello, I don't think that gender selection is an good Idea, I think people should use technology for knowing about upcoming baby's health instead of gender. Thanks <a href="http://www.docpods.com.au/find-a-podiatrist">Find a podistrist</a>

Thanks for the FANTASTIC post! This information is reallygood and thanks a ton for sharing it :-) I m looking forward deperately for the next post of yours..

I'm 38, I only want to get pregnant one more time and it must be a boy!!!! I need gender selection!!!

hi i am 29 years old i already have a girl baby .i am looking for baby boy as my next baby .when is the right time for it

i have four boys my last two had trouble breating when born. i am intrested in conceiving a girl but i am scared of having the same problems. and as well of having a boy is there a way to have the girl and garantee everything will be fine. and is the cost high.

I have two girls. now i want one boy. garanted everything will be fine.it's 100 % accurate

I already have two girls and i want to have a boy !! which would be the best method for me, i had a history of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy , i had my right tube removed in a complication due to doctors neglegnce !!! so plz can u tell me what can i do i would really really appreciate that thanks *******

Some fertility clinics offer gender selection to help you have a boy or girl. You should start by contacting fertility clinics in your area and ask if they offer gender selection. There's a Find a Clinic search on every page of FertilityAuthority.com. Good luck! Claire

i have two doughter my wife age 36 can get boy by ivf

My self and my wife are married and have two daugthers and we both want a male child,but we reside in South Africa please can you give us the contact details of the clinic to visit to have a gender selection done in the United States.

Is there a test that can be done early in pregnancy to determine the gender of the fetus?

me and my boy friend want a girl we have been trying for a long time he has 7bots n want a girl really bad

i have boy baby and i want to know when is a good time to start tryin for a girl

hi, i want to have a baby , but i do not start yet , and i want boy , what should i do to select sex of baby?, plz help me, tanx

I have three boys I would like to have a girl, what are some of the risk factors by using gender selection?

hello im 29 years old and i have 6 daughters how can i conceive a boy? i want to have my last baby and i know that the baby's health is more imporatant then the gender, but i also want to be a mother of a baby boy

I am 28 years old and I am a mother of 5 girls who would also like to complete my family with a boy. If you find anything out let me know.Thank you

Hi, my name is Samantha and I have 5 boys. I was planning on getting pregnant in October to have the baby in July, Do you have any suggestions.

Hi. I am 20 years old and i want to have my first child. I quit taking my birth control and it seems i can't concieve. Do you have any advice you could give me? If so could you please contact me on my email......hott_babe_91_2006@yahoo.com Thanks so much!

hi. me and my fiance have 3 boys, and i long for a daughter. i dont feel whole, i feel there something missing. a daughter will make our family whole. how do i go about finding a clinic nor me??? thank you1

I would have to have egg retrival since my tubes are tied, and I must have a boy and it should be done in the MUSLIM coustoms, so my hands are tied who is the dr and HOW EXPENSIVE is this in the Nashville area. Thank, Rena

Gender selection,your post is quite helpful for parents.

please pray for me to have a baby (hopefully a girl). i am 42 years old never been married never been pregnant, i do have a bf (he has 2 boys from his ex)

Is there a list of clinics that offer gender selection that I could see if there is one closest to me?

Back in the early 80's they did not do ultrasound tests and we did the Drano Test. I was taught that Brown was for a girl and blue/green was for a boy. I did this several times with all three of my pregnancy's and all of my friends. This test always showed the correct color. If it turns out black you need to redo the test on another day because the woman ate something that had to much spice or acid in it. I have two girls and one boy, along with ten nieces and nephews. I believe this test does work, but you need to be at least ten weeks along to be accurate.

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How to have a girl? I the only woman in my dad's father in 30+ years. How can my husband and I have a girl , we already have three boys???

I think this is wonderful information. As for whether or not gender selection is right or wrong, that strongly depends on one's personal opinion. While you might not think gender selection is the right choice for you, that does not give you the right to tell someone else not to do it. On another note, if you cannot spell, maybe you should not be having children in the first place.

How to have a girl? I the only woman in my dad's father in 30+ years. How can my husband and I have a girl , we already have three boys???

I want twin boys, is that possible with a gender selection clinic?

I have three girls and I would like to have a baby boy, prefferably twins. Am 39 this year. What can I do to make this possible?

There is a test called preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) that is used with IVF for gender selection. You will need to find a fertility clinic that does gender selection. The first step would be to contact a fertility clinic near you. You can use our clinic directory to find one. Just look up to the right sidebar and click on the button for fertility clinic, and enter your zip code. They'll help you figure out what's next!

If I understand this right, they create an embryo via IVF, and if the baby is the "wrong" sex, it will be killed. How can this be ethical? Doctors and scientists need to quit trying to replace God.

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