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My wife JK and I went through a 2 1/2-year odyssey of infertility.

To the Wannabe Dads, I promise a road map of everything I ever learned or experienced that can help you survive. I was lucky enough to find friends that helped me cope. Maybe I can do the same for you. I'm desperate to find the male readers, so I may sacrifice myself on the altar of humility from time to time. And hey, I'm a guy! Naturally I'll write something guys understand.

To the Wannabe Moms, I know that learning the male perspective can help you, too! I just happen to speak fluent guy and fluent English.

To all of you, I know that your stories will eventually shape this blog. Please share them.

My wife and I finally reached the other side and welcomed twins, a boy and a girl, in December of 2010. They have an adorable older brother named Luke the Dog — a sweet, over-exuberant, shedding machine.

Desire a little more of Alec's dorky infertility perspective? He chronicles his and JK's infertility story in the blog, I Want to be a Daddy.



a blog by Alec, April 14, 2011

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a blog by Alec, April 7, 2011

The Fertile People can be strange. Really strange. They think nothing of so many things that are clearly something!

Have you heard of any of these gems?

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a blog by Alec, March 31, 2011

March Infertility Madness comes to a close this week, and I can't help but wipe away a tear from my eye. I always tear when I tweak my excess nose hair.

My bracket bet with JK was decided last week when the underdogs went nuts on my safe picks. I lost to my lovely wife for the fourth time in five years. Yep. Four out of five dentists surveyed recommended that you bet against me.

State of manhood: shrunken to insignificance.