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Don’t Become a Victim of “I Didn’t Know”

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a blog by David Kreiner, M.D., F.A.C.O.G., East Coast Fertility, July 26, 2010

A friend of mine was complaining to me about the trouble he got into with his homeowner’s association because he did not hide his empty garbage cans in his garage but left them behind his cars in front of his house. It was 20 feet from the curb, he claimed, still distraught that he should have been scolded for breaking the rule.

“I didn’t know,” he said.

That phrase, “I didn’t know,” clicked in my brain, It’s a recurrent declaration from the frustrated patients I see every day.

Don’t Waste Time

My infertility practice is filled with patients who spent years of their lives assuming that their fertility would be there when they were ready. Some even mentioned their failed attempts at conceiving to their gynecologist, who may have reassured them. Or, if it were a more aggressive clinician, he may have put them on clomid for three to six months. Meanwhile these women got older, many over 40, not realizing that time was chipping away at their fertility.

“They didn’t know.”

A fertility screen is a good way to assess annually what is happening to your fertility independent of your age. This is accomplished by getting day two or three FSH and estradiol levels, as well as an ultrasonographic antral follicle count. An AntiMullerian Hormone level can be checked at any point in the cycle and likewise reflect the relative number of eggs left giving some reassurance about a person’s remaining fertility.

Fertility Is a Temporary State

What do I — as a reproductive endocrinologist who sees the damage done by this benign neglect on a daily basis — do to wake people up to the fact that fertility is a temporary state that needs to be taken advantage of when the time is right? Recently, there was a report of doctors taking ovarian tissue/eggs from a child to preserve her fertility. It’s hard for me to imagine that this is the future solution for the masses. However, egg freezing technology is shortly becoming acceptable therapy with ever-increasing success and lack of problems being noted.

Patients who are not in a position to execute their reproductive rights while they are still fertile should consider egg freezing when they do not have a partner to share in conception. With a willing and available partner, freezing embryos is the most viable option.

But without question, couples who are ready to start a family, should seek assistance from a reproductive endocrinologist who specializes in helping those such as yourselves build your families. Even when not covered by insurance, there are affordable options such as minimal stimulation IVF ($3,900 at East Coast Fertility), grants and studies that make the process within reach of most people in need.

So do not become another victim to “I didn’t know.” Take action, see a reproductive endocrinologist and get on the right path to building that family of your dreams.

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